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2019-05-06
In a time where more and more people, at least in the big city worlds, are leaning toward a single life as the preferred way of co-existing, I’m, as usual, leaning in the opposite direction. I used to live alone in Denmark for more than 20 years, and having enjoyed it for a large part, I finally came to the sense that a change was needed. Not that I suddenly got sophisticated ambitions regarding my social life, not at all, but a need for a well-balanced change, to be able to share my life with someone dear, did start to emerge. I guess it is something you grow mature to, and that it happened to me late, was not a surprise, since I in all earthly aspects have always considered myself 10 years behind.

I started to pursue this new desire, and did so mainly here in Mexico. And succeed, and failed, no less than three times, before I realized that it was not guaranteed to meet the perfect match, just because you use a dating site algorithm to find her. So after we split up, my third ex and I, I decided that if anything romantic should ever be part of my life again, it would have to happen the good old-fashioned way: Boy meets girl. Somewhere in real life. Without intentions. Pure emotional attraction as we would bump into each other unexpectedly.

And it actually happened!

But not before I started to apply some of the life-transforming principl ... read more